TAKE YOUR EYES OFF YOUR SPOUSE PLATE

Tunde hid the cigarette he was smoking as soon as he

heard the knock at the door.

 

Lisa walked in and could pick the cigarette smile.

 

“Why can’t you ever do something right”? screamed Lisa

 

“I have done everything possible to make you stop and yet”, she went on further

 

Mr Tunde was speechless as he stood up pulling out the cigarette from his mouth.

 

He was losing his cool…Why do some couples do this?

 

Many married persons are acutely aware of what their spouse is doing that is causing relationship problems, but completely unaware of what they are doing. 

 

Take your

eyes off your spouse plate.

 

It is very

easy to point fingers at your spouse forgetting that you too have a role to

play in the happiness of your home so learn to look inwards.

•   Sometimes

there is a discovery and awareness to be done.

•   Sometimes

there is forgiveness, healing  and a closure to be done. 

•   Sometimes

there is learning, unlearning and relearning to be done,etc.

 

You cannot

change anyone. It is not your job to fix your spouse. You can only change

yourself so why not become the change you desire in order to influence the

desire you harbour?

 

Have you tasted a MEAL WITH CHINNY? Kindly invite a friend to join us in the next episode coming up in two weeks time (29th March, 2022) by sharing this link with them: https://bit.ly/Marriage-webinar-wishlist