She stammered looking straight into my face without saying a word clearly “I guess you can read my pain” says her eyes.   What if my husband is the problem? What if my marriage breaks? Why can he not just understand that I am hurting? She spoke amidst tears this

The closer you are to someone, the more likely you are to step on their toes. After all familiarity, they say it breeds contempt, and being married to someone certainly puts you closer together. So the chances are good that you and your spouse would hurt each other. The point

A woman who just discovered that her husband cheated on her recently asked me a great question. She said, “My husband cheated on me and has apologized over 100 times, and is committed to being a new man but I do not know if I can mend things with him

Let’s imagine your car has a minor oil leakage day after day. You have an option of facing it to repair it or you could choose to ignore it in order to avoid the inconvenience of going to the mechanical engineers, the cost of the repair and new parts, and

Why do some couples become shy in marriage? They fail to experience their needs or ignore their spouse’s needs as well. Here is what you should do…reach out and touch your spouse. Try a warm kiss, a gentle rub, stroke their cheek, or play with their feet.  It only takes

In my early years of marriage I often got into a cycle where I argue constantly about the same thing. Some of these arguments are usually caused by negative communication patterns or impact from childhood or inability to know the appropriate conflict management skill and these triggers restrict respect and

As a child I remember clearly how I was taught, raised and disciplined. Hmmm…my childhood was delicious, sweet, sour and a ting of bitterness. Yes! I had my share of childhood memories I still relish and some I wish never happened. I would not particularly say it was shouting and