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YOU BE CULPRIT OH!

“You must be home at 6pm, no excuses.” “You are not permitted to join any social media handle.” These and more are the questions and statements from a husband to a wife in this 21st century. I am not making this up. This is a wife’s real life experience. Now,

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SHYNESS IN MARRIAGE IS AWKWARD

Oh! Conditioning, how you have killed marriages.   The open exchange of conversation is vital for a happy marriage irrespective of the subject matter.   Do you know that without an open exchange of conversation you cannot enjoy your intimate life as a married couple? Do you encourage each other

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EMPATHETIC MARRIAGE SOLUTION

EMPATHETIC MARRIAGE SOLUTION Active listening is the key that unlocks most marital conflict because when you are listening actively then you are able to better understand your spouse’s viewpoint.   This is why active listening can be termed as an empathetic marriage solution. Do not focus your thoughts on what

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Not Asking Questions Set Into Confusion

In the early days of my marriage, I was a wreck with communication as I would always conclude based on the impulse of my mind or the dominant emotion at play at any given moment.   Ashi! How frustrated and confused I often felt afterwards, I felt ill-treated until I

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SHYNESS IN MARRIAGE IS AWKWARD

SHYNESS IN MARRIAGE IS AWKWARD Oh! Conditioning, how you have killed marriages.   Open exchange of conversation is vital for a happy marriage irrespective of the subject matter.   Do you know that without open exchange of conversation you cannot enjoy your intimate life as a married couple? Do you

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My spouse must bring a 50% to the table

It is indeed laughable when a married couple solves the equation of marriage as though it were some arithmetic problem. Sometimes you may have to go 90 percent to meet your spouse’s 10 percent sometimes, and at other times, your partner may have to go 90 percent to meet you

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Courtship is the real gig

Bob was fond of giving roses to Grace during their courtship. This was one thing Grace loved about him as a gift is her core means of feeling loved.    After marriage, Bob relaxed and felt there was no need for all those roses because according to him “he need

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