CODES OF LOVE: PART 3

Hubby: “I am off from there I would be headed to the office”

 

Me: “Really are you going to the office today”

 

Hubby: “ Any problem?”

 

Me: “hmmmm….not really, I thought you are home today”

 

Hubby: “I have to go tidy up something, is there anything you want of me”

 

Me: “Yes, I would like you to stay home with me”

 

Hubby: smiles…. “I would go and be back shortly”

 

This is the story of my life today and it could have led to something serious if not properly managed.

 

People, what would you say this coach of yours was craving?

 

Quality time: Couples whose love language is quality time feel the most loved when their spouse actively wants to spend time with them and is always down to hang out. 

 

Everyone has a way they choose to understand love. 

 

Anyone whose love code is quality time particularly love when active listening, eye contact, and full presence are prioritised hallmarks in the relationship. This is all about giving your undivided attention to your spouse, without the distraction or any other outside interference. 

 

They have a strong desire to actively spend time with their spouse, having meaningful conversations or sharing recreational activities.

 

If your spouse feels content and happy when you are around them, even if you are not really doing anything. The important thing is you are spending focused time together. 

 

One-on-one time is critical and uninterrupted and focused conversations are needed. Light a few candles and enjoy quality time at home. Learn to create memories and special moments together. Sharing new experiences means the world to you. 

You can connect with your spouse.Join us in the next episode of MEALS with Chinny coming up on the 29th March, 2022 as we explore forgiveness and letting go in marriage: https://bit.ly/Marriage-webinar-wishlist,