DO NOT BE GRUMPY

Getrude is always grumpy, complaining now and then.

Kelvin, you are never available for me.

Kelvin, you always come home late.

Kelvin, you don’t care about me

These are the constant phrases that sprang from Getrude’s lips to her husband “Kelvin”.

Eventually Kelvin got fed up and he began to wonder if he really is not good enough for his wife.

Gratitude! That was the missing equation. Getrude lacked the ability to express gratitude and could only see the downside and not the good in her husband.

Gratitude Instead of Complaints is very important in any marital relationship. Positive energy flows between two people when there is an attitude of gratitude. 

Constant complaints create a heavy, negative energy, which is not fun to be around. And if you do have a complaint, which is normal, make sure to lead with a compliment rather than dive right into the negatives.

Many times we struggle with expressing gratitude because we are stuck and still chained to pains from the past which hinders you from reflecting on what would have happened in that painful situation that never happened.

Yes! Because it could have been worse. Have you paused to express gratitude for what did not happen? For the lessons you learnt from what happened? For the growth and a new you that birthforth?

You need the unchain from the burden, the pain, the hurt so your wholesome self can emerge.You need forgiveness sometimes for others and at some other time for self.

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