Not Asking Questions Set Into Confusion

In the early days of my marriage, I was a wreck with communication as I would always conclude based on the impulse of my mind or the dominant emotion at play at any given moment.

Ashi! How frustrated and confused I often felt afterwards, I felt ill-treated until I encountered life.

Asking Questions! This is the life

Asking questions is the healthiest way to build rapport and it is essential in marriage as it forms part of the bedrock for effective communication. It is similar to interviewing someone for a job opening or it can be like a reporter seeking information for an article. 

When asking questions in marriage, never approach it with a mindset to interrogate your spouse with an already set mind. Come with an open mind filled with empathy, relax and get to know the other person with the goal of finding common ground or things of interest. 

You can begin by simply commenting on your spouse’s positive attributes,choice or even contributions and following up with related questions. For instance, you could say I love the way you provide for the family, then basically follow up, steering clear of topics that could entice or cause arguing, while gradually leading your spouse to common ground you’d like to discuss.

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