TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR YOURSELF

A lot of people talk about happiness and in marriage a lot still think it is the duty of their spouse to make them happy.

While if you are not happy as a person then you cannot be happy as a couple because your happiness is your responsibility.

In life good marriages don’t just happen, they require work from both couples.

The ability to take responsibility for yourself then this is the most important choice you can make to improve your marriage.

This means that you learn how to take responsibility for your own feelings and needs. This means that instead of trying to get your spouse to make you feel happy and secure, you learn how to do this for yourself through your own thoughts and actions. 

This means learning to treat yourself with kindness, caring, compassion, and acceptance instead of self-judgement. 

Treat your spouse the way you want to be treated. We all yearn to be treated lovingly with kindness. We need to treat ourselves this way, and we need to treat our spouse and others this way. 

Marriage flourish when both people treat each other with kindness. While there are no guarantees, often treating others with kindness brings kindness in return. 

To eradicate ignorance which is the biggest enemy of your marriage and source of conflict, then buy the video class on “The REACH+ Model to Forgiveness: https://selar.co/acl1 to activate deep serenity in life and your marriage.Sometimes forgiveness is for others at other times forgiveness is for self.